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Victoria Day in a Time of Sadness

How do we celebrate the May 24 long weekend when there are so many obstacles to getting together to celebrate?

I’m not so sure that Zoom or FaceTime or other video conferencing platforms have invented a really helpful way to celebrate what is usually seen as the unofficial start of summer and the time to open cottages, the time for fishing and fireworks, the time for BBQs and brews.

This Victoria Day holiday weekend will give us a taste of what our summer will look like in our not-yet-here new normal, in this year of the global pandemic.

I’m writing this post on the ninth day of May.  COVID-19 has made its way into our infirmary (across the driveway from my residence). Six Jesuits from the infirmary have died in the past eleven days and I pray that we have seen the end of this.

We have revealed ourselves to be in union with other long term care homes in so many regions of Canada, and certainly here in Southern Ontario. A sad solidarity! I’m selfishly relieved that the infirmary (Rene Goupil House) has been closed to visitors, including fellow Jesuits, for well over a month.

However, I am saddened that I didn’t have a chance for a last visit with those who have died, and I will likely miss that opportunity with others. How do we celebrate Victoria Day? I know in my head that we always have to find reasons for hope and celebration. But my heart is filled with incredible sadness.

I suppose that there is a glimmer of hope in the recognition that my pain unites me to the tremendous pain of so many in this country and throughout the world. That’s kind of an incidental consolation. Do I celebrate Victoria Day by walking around the exterior of Rene Goupil House with balloons?

I would like to offer a proposal that I shared in this spot, on this day a few years ago. Queen Elizabeth II is the longest reigning British monarch. I wonder if we should change the name of the holiday to Elizabeth Day. She surpassed Queen Victoria on 15 September 2015 and has been on the throne since 06 February 1952. 

Perhaps we can find a way to convince our political leaders to make a change. Elizabeth is certainly one of the most loved and respected leaders in the world. Her serious great aunt would probably have a difficult time understanding the culture in which we live. Elizabeth understands it.

Her annual Christmas Day message generally invites us to reflect on and pray for the world and it includes references to specific events in the life of the world. This year she addressed us in a special way and then on Easter Sunday, reminding us to continue being strong and hopeful in the face of our new reality.

Elizabeth may be extremely discrete and she never wades into the controversies of our day, but she has a sense of humour and is not hesitant about allowing her popularity to be put to use to promote a good cause. Did you see the James Bond and Elizabeth II act at the opening of the London Olympics a few years ago? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IccmIECEqTU [1]

Did you catch the video where she and Prince Harry mock Barack and Michelle Obama as a promotional piece for the Invictus Games? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmXp5nrGSwQ [2]

Happy Elizabeth Day!